Your Own Definition of a Bear

tanis · Junior Joined: Jul 15, 2005 Posts: 7 Location: redding

emanoyhl wrote:

even still - leave that at high school - and grow up Wink

life's too short to have any attitude like that...

yeh life is too short but people do it ne ways basic immaturity 101 Wink

biggles · Posted: Tue Jan 16, 2007 5:30 am Post subject: Re: Your Own Definition of a Bear

I always thought of it as lack of attitude.To be a bear is to be happy with who you are.you dont have to put on an act.you are as you are.it dosent matter what sombody looks like but how thay feel.its not an exclusive club.

microcub · Junior Joined: Sep 15, 2006 Posts: 18 Location: london

for me its about comfort. being comfortable with your body, your masculinity (not having to put on a constructed version of "manliness")
and being comfortable with others,

and that means a lot of guys are built for comfort (the big 3 b's; bear, belly and butt) because of that but beards and body fur are just nice window dressing