My husbear, partner, spouse, significant other, etc. and I are starting to look for friends to meet with socially.
We bought a house a year ago and now would like to entertain a little.
It seems that everyone that answers a personal ad for this is really just looking for "benefits" not friendship.
Does anyone else have this problem?
We don't really go to bars and the gay social scene seems to be very "twinkish"!

if i were closer i'd come and hang out

You are not that far. Sometime my husbear and I will take a daytrip and maybe meet you for lunch or somesuch.

oh that would be cool!

i do love to eat
hehehe

i do have some local bear friends that would also like to join in - would be a fun time...

sound like im missing out here in rainy england.