Do bears only go for bears?

Lonboy · Newbie Joined: Aug 26, 2010 Posts: 1 Location: London

I'm quite new to the scene and I've been flitting around making friends etc. One things I've noticed is that I don't seem to stand a chance with men who identify as 'Bears', they only seem to be interested in men who reflect their image. I'm young, in shape, yet smooth - but surely it's inside what counts?

Reponses anyone?

bearmaster · Site Admin Joined: Nov 01, 2002 Posts: 117 Location: USA

it's all about what's inside that counts, just be yourself... and these men you don't have a chance with, are you looking at them on the outside (as being bears) or do you know or try to know them inside? Smile

either way, just take your time Smile